Thinking of having another baby? Going from 2 to 3.
It seemed like a big decision to go from two children to three. The jump appeared to be massive. A new car, not enough hands, another set of clothes to wash! I loved being a mum to my two children, what if a third altered the balance and I really didn't have enough time to devote to each one of them? My second child is a real adventurer, into everything and not afraid to get her hands dirty. She will go far in life as her determination will mean every dream she has will be in reach. If I had another baby would I still be able to devote all the time she needs or would I turn her into the ultimate, frustrated 'middle child'? And what about the rest of life? Would I have time for anything else? Not to mention the many comments from others 'you have one of each already', 'three's a bad number'. There are a million reasons why not. But what kind of life do I want for myself? What kind of life do I want for my children? I want a life wh...